I have to admit that, recently, children upbringing has been my obsession. It all began when the new member of the family came into our life and all of sudden, I realized that my son was having a hard time trying to cope with it; which I have to change my parenting style and approach.
before Abdullah became a big brother, he was an 'easy' type of a child. frankly, at that time, i didn't even know the word 'tantrum' and 'terrible twos'. alhamdulillah all praise be to Allah.
and now, he still is mashaa Allah. it's just that he had learnt how to be more expressive and he needs a little time to cope with a new life; having a little sister, maybe a bit less attention but much much more love is coming in the way inshaa Allah.
i find that raising a toddler is both fascinating and challenging. to discipline a child means disciplining yourself; patience and time is really they key. subhanallah i'm really awed by seeing how much we can learn from young children.
soon, Abdullah will outgrow toddlerhood and Umamah will be its new member. i wonder how she will be. certainly there are so much more to anticipate :)
أسأل الله العظيم رب العرش الكريم أن يرزقني التقوى والعلم والصبر والهدى إلى التربية إنه ولي ذلك والقادر عليه
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